The death experience is not the same thing as “being dead.” It’s like a short sightseeing trip compared to living an entire lifetime in a foreign country. A lot of people, though, are interested in what happens when we die. In Seth Speaks, Seth gives some excellent descriptions to help us understand. Here are short summaries of what I consider some of his best points there.
First, he reminds us that our waking consciousness, which we think is steady and continuous, actually is “pulsing,” blinking on and off at speeds so fast we cannot perceive the gaps. This doesn’t change the fact that we are in “off” mode about half the time, where our consciousness is not focused in this physical reality. In dreams we are in the “off” mode for longer periods, where our consciousness is focused in other realities.
What we call death, then, is just a longer period where our consciousness is not specifically focused in this earth-based material reality. That doesn’t mean it’s not focused in some reality.
Often we will be greeted by “people” in spirit form who are there to welcome us. It could be people close to use in our most recent life, or in past lives. Or just as often we will be greeted by spirits guides who take on the form of our loved ones and play the role of being them. Gradually we are informed of the true nature of our spirit being, and the pretenses can be dropped.
Progress along these lines is not the same for everyone. Those with rigid beliefs about what “heaven” or “hell” should be, will make slower progress because they are so fixated on those beliefs that it takes more “time” to explain true realities to them, but they make progress nevertheless. Like those used car places that advertise “Everybody rides!” — after we die, “Everybody makes progress!” It’s just at vastly different rates.
Another point – we consider ourselves to be dependent on one physical image. When we die our consciousness expands and we realize we are not dependent on any image at all. In fact, most of us will eventually adopt the form we had when we were at the peak of our physical or spiritual development in our most recent life, and keep that for some time until we gradually take on a finer spirit form as fits our purposes and progress level.
This next point is important. Even in life, though we might not realize it, we form what we experience according to our beliefs and expectations. It sometimes takes a while for our thoughts and expectations to materialize in our physical lives. But once we die? No delays! We immediately experience what we focus on and expect.
Once the newly dead get the hang of it, they start creating all kinds of fantastic realities, filled with immense estates, super powerful 60-foot long autos, idyllic mountain and seaside environments, attractive cities, and much more. This is what Bob Monroe called the “Belief System Territories,” where souls were exercising their abilities to create through thoughts and beliefs whatever they like.
Now to the stereotyped version of heaven, where people think the will sit (flit? stand? float?) around and just adore God. Sorry. Seth offers no hope for the lazy. Once you get past the Belief System Territories, there are a huge number of challenges, a huge number of decisions to make, and then you go about “studying” or learning whatever skills and traits you want to develop. It’s easier than it is here, but it is challenging nevertheless.
Some will want to prepare for their “next” incarnation, some will want to redo and perfect their immediately past life in spirit mode (not physical – we can’t go back to physical as we were), and some might even decide to leave the incarnational existences altogether. Death is not the same for everyone, any more than life is.
At this “time,” as you go about preparing, you become more fully aware of all your incarnations, all your probabilities, and all the incarnations of your “Big Self,” of whom you are an integral part. So you’ll have a sound perspective from which to make your choices as to your “next steps” in your path of progress.
Here’s a positive but challenging note. Most after-death environments are not somber at all, but rather joyous and intense. I call it the Big After-Death Party – spirits enjoying all kinds of stimulating experiences.
So what’s the challenge? Learning how to use our new freedoms to create, in existences where entirely new laws apply in terms of basic assumptions. You can be where want, when you want, doing what you want, but at some point you understand that you need to focus on creating abilities and traits that will serve you well in your overall progress.
One last embarrassing thing. I think it’s embarrassing anyway. In the death environment telepathy works all the time. That means other spirits will immediately know what you think about them. You can’t hide your emotions and feelings. There is absolutely no hypocrisy. Can you imagine how awkward that would be if it were an operating principle down here on earth?
Well, all that should give you some idea of what to “expect” after you die, but please remember, your immediate after-death experience will be formed largely according to the beliefs and expectations you bring to the party. If you think there is no consciousness after death, that’s what you’ll experience for some time until a guide helps you realize you’ve got lots to do.
If you expect pearly gates, they will be “materialized” for you. If you believe you’re going to hell, with lots of scary monsters, then for a time you’ll experience some version of that as well, but souls in that condition are usually quickly apprised of the real situation by guides whose job it is to help them, and then they begin to make progress.
So give some thought to what you expect after you die. And try to be positive. It can only help.